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THERAPY

The Life Alchemist for High-Stakes Transitions & Radical Relationships

From beyond "functioning" to feeling unstoppable. No fluff, no whispering. Just deep wisdom, keen insight, and the real talk you need to reclaim your life.

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What Clients Say

Ravi K.

I always rely on Hello NL for my catering needs - their food is fantastic!

Chloe T.

The team worked wonders setting up my new home, couldn’t ask for more!

David G.

Highly recommend their grocery shopping service - saved me so much time.

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Have you found that:

  • You're stuck and anxious about "getting it wrong" during a major life transition? 

  • Desperate for a "reset" but not knowing where to start?

  • Exploring your sexuality or relationship desires?

  • You are caught in a loop and can't see the exit?

  • Thinking that everyone else seems to have it figured out, but you don't?

  • You please people at the expense of your own boundaries?

Are you ready to step into your healing and live
an empowered life on your terms?

I'm ready to help you find resolution and make important life decisions, develop positive and fulfilling connections, and create a next chapter that actually fits your life.

Individual
Psychotherapy

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Feel less overwhelmed and more grounded as you move through anxiety, burnout, grief, or major life changes.

Online sessions help you stabilize, understand your patterns, and begin building tools that support you long‑term.

Online Therapy - NY Only

Relationships
& Sexuality 

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Support for couples, polycules, blended families, and other relationship constellations in conflict, facing a big decision, or ready for a reset.

 

I am sex, sexuality, alt‑relationship, and gender positive.

Coaching - Worldwide

Transformation
Coaching

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For people in big transitions—relocation, expat life, career shifts, divorce, illness, or spiritual change—who want a softer landing.

Map your transition, clarify what you want, and design practical next steps you can  follow.

Coaching - Worldwide

Dr. Deb Berman Happy

Dr. Deb Berman is a solution‑focused psychotherapist and life coach who helps people in big transitions and relationships needing change, find steadier ground, clearer options, and a more livable next chapter.

For nearly two decades, Dr. Deb Berman has worked with adults and relationships navigating anxiety, burnout, major life transitions, and complex relational dynamics. She divides her time between Amsterdam and New York City and works primarily online, supporting New York–based psychotherapy clients and coaching clients around the world.

tESTIMONIALS

As the head of a television writers room, Deb helped me navigate a good work life balance.

C.L.

Dr. Deb is the rare combination of spiritual wisdom, philosophical insight, and rock-star energy.

M.G.

Dr. Deb is the sister, mother, coach, and truth-teller I didn’t know I was missing. She helped me get a life re-do and become the person I always wanted to be.

Z.M.

She gets it. The manipulation, the confusion, the guilt—they’re real, and [she] helped me name it, confront it, and crush it. I feel stronger, wiser, and finally untangled from the toxic mess.

H.D.

We trust Dr. Deb with our most important relationship decisions. She helped us so much and we decided to stay together.

M.A.

Dr. Deb ... sees through the fog, calls you out on your BS, and shows you how to live with more clarity, courage, and joy than you thought possible. I am endlessly grateful.

L.B.

Begin Your Radical Evolution

Ready to reclaim your life?

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